The views and opinions shared in this article belong solely to the author and do not necessarily represent the views and opinions of Vocally.
I used to think I knew everything about sex. What is there to know really? Some people have penises, some people have vaginas, and things happen with those organs.
Pretty f*cking simple, right? Wrong!
Sex is vastly more complicated than I ever thought was humanly possible and as I get older and interact with a more diverse population, I've realized that my sex life for the past six years (I lost my virginity at 18) has been embarrassingly vanilla. Like, very vanilla.
While my friends are getting it on with strangers in the woods, I'm over here living my best life in missionary. Although, I can't say I'm not enjoying my basic sex life. Because, for the most part, I am — I just feel like I should've experienced more by now, ya know?
Like, why haven't I locked eyes with a stranger across the room and then proceeded to take him home? Why haven't I had sex in the woods? Why haven't I had sex with multiple people at one time?
There's so many types of sex I wish I would've had by now, but even though I haven't, I'm hoping one day I'll be able to cross these off my bucket list.